i have been a member of newbienudes for years. members blog, chat, use the forums. we get to know people by what they tell us about themselves. in fact, the women or more frequent bloggers than the men. here, in a community of women, there is almost nothing. no one is in chat, no one seems to blog, status is almost dead. no way for us to know each other. if we don't begin to open up and share our thoughts and ideas, show others who we are inside, this site will fold up and disappear.